An
Outside Angle for Inner Success
Personal life coaches
seek to give an edge both in the workplace and at home
By Patricia Kitchen
Staff Writer
VAL
WILLIAMS USED to run an HMO in New Jersey with 700 employees. Now she
runs a small business coaching 20 people on their careers and what's
most valuable to them.
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Life Coach
Pay: $200
to $500 per client per month, depending on your specialty
and expertise. Executive coaches get even more. And some
people coach part time to supplement other incomes. Prerequisites: Experience
in the area you're coaching. People have backgrounds
in human resources, counseling, therapy, financial planning
and entrepreneurship. Further training and certification
are available. You'll also want to be an excellent listener
and get a kick out of helping people grow. Resources: International
Coach Federation, www.coachfederation.org,
888-423-3131; look for Long Island and New York City
chapters.
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Looking for a new challenge after 13 years in the health insurance
industry, she made the change because she saw how worthwhile it could
be to help others one-on-one achieve success at work, balance between
work and families, and more satisfaction in their lives.
I spent the day with her recently, observing her in action in her
home office in Edison, N.J. -- mostly on the phone and computer because
the bulk of her work is done virtually.
"Coaching as a profession has just begun its acceleration," says
Thomas Leonard, who in 1988 founded Coach University, a virtual
training program. There are probably 10,000 coaches at work today
-- outside sports and gym classes, of course -- and will likely
be 25,000 to 50,000 by the year 2005. He expects the coaching population
to peak at 100,000 to 200,000. And look for specialty coaches --
for kids, as well as in areas such as parenting, dating, ethics,
small business and spirituality.
The International Coach Federation is a relatively new association
that has sprung up and offers certification and a referral service.
And many coaches are working closely with members of a whole new support
profession -- the virtual office assistant, who may work from their
own home offices many states away.
Williams' first scheduled call of the day is
from a young woman in the high-tech industry -- targeted as "high potential" by her company,
which is footing the $700-per-month bill for her telephone coaching.
Williams is grooming her to move up the ladder, pointing out underling
behavior: "Why would you type [the meeting notes] yourself when you
could delegate and get 20 minutes for something else?" And she also
describes the behavior of many senior executives: At meetings, she
says,
"Think crisp, think of what the issue is, then
think what's the next step and let's move on."
Next is a group call from four saleswomen from the Atlanta area.
Some issues discussed: using a daily planner, making more calls to
potential sales recruits, and looking for outside support so they
can let go of some duties.
She coached them in how to say no to draining
and unnecessary requests and invitations: in a "charge neutral voice" say, "No, I won't be doing
that. But thank you for thinking of me." No explanations, no apologies.
Coaches are not therapists, consultants or crying
pillows, says Williams. Instead, they help people clear away distractions,
focus on goals that really matter, and push through fear or inertia.
What Williams says she brings to the party are "structure and accountability."
She got into this line of work five years ago
when she was director of what is now known as Prudential Health
Care Systems and she started saying to herself, "OK. I get this. I'm done." She attended one of
Leonard's workshops in Manhattan and knew it was for her. "It brought
tears to my eyes," she says.
Today, she has 20 individual clients, some who pay their own fees
-- usually $350 a month for weekly half-hour calls -- some whose fees
are paid for by their employers and who get more customization, plus
more time on the phone. Add to that fees from her corporate speaking
engagements, and she has surpassed her former salary as an HMO executive.
The big plus about the job: helping people improve
their lives. "What
could be better than that?" she asks. Also, her own flexible lifestyle
and hours.
As for the downside, a business calls for marketing. It can also make
for a solitary day, which is why Williams keeps posted a phone list
of her buddies to check in with. And like most coaches, she even has
her own coach to help her maneuver through life.
Her final call came from Jane Yousy, a coach-in-training in Niantic,
Conn., whom Williams is coaching in how to grow her business. When
Yousy started wrestling with issues on how to work with newsletter
editors -- she'll send them articles on coaching -- I was able to jump
in and do a little coaching of my own.
Photo by Thomas A. Ferrara
As a personal coach, Val Williams
says she enjoys helping people focus on career goals and improve their
lives; she has her own coach as well.
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